Tuesday, November 8, 2016

365 Days

Posted by Janet Tiong at 11:25 PM 0 comments
Hello. It's been a year since my last post.
What has changed?
Over this one year, few people came into my life and left.
I learn more about people, who they are and why do they exist in my life and also about myself.
I become a more rational person and I cry lesser these days.
I turned 27 and this blog is 8 years old this year. This means that I started this blog when I was 19.
I know when to let things go. I know how to listen to my heart. I know when to react.
Am I happy?
Yes, I am happy being by myself.
I completed a solo trip to Tokyo and Seoul which I never thought that I would be able to do it at first.
I am still protecting my heart, not wanting it to get hurt badly again.
At times, I am trapped, I will always try my best to find a way out.
My soulmate hasn't appeared or maybe there isn't any soulmate for me.
I can't change the reality. I can only bend in and go with what reality has given me.
What's my next encounter? Honestly, I don't know.
I only know that most importantly I need to always keep myself happy.
Continue to pray that I will follow what God has planned for me.
I can't find an exact explanation to a lot of things as to why they happened that way.
The answer is with God in fact. He knows.
He mends broken heart, broken soul.
If I could, I just want to ask for someone who would never give up on me, despite my imperfections.
Truth is, you need patience. Sometimes I am too naive and being naive is a bad thing to many people.
God created me in such a way that I am soft hearted and I give in a lot.
All in all, just don't give up on yourself yet Janet. You have came this far.......
A gentle reminder to live this life with love, pain, happy, sad emotions.
You will bloom like a pretty rose when Spring comes.

Signing off,
Little Miss J

Sunday, November 8, 2015


Posted by Janet Tiong at 11:42 PM 2 comments
Everything will be erased from today.
Dear little heart,your other half is missing and I am sobbing for you too.
Hope to meet my better self soon.

Saturday, November 7, 2015


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Thursday, September 24, 2015


Posted by Janet Tiong at 1:43 AM 0 comments
是的,我失眠了。以前从来都没有这个问题,但是最近我发现我失眠的频率越来越多次了。我心里头很多的疑虑,没有人可以解答。最近给自己放了长假,可是却好像没什么放到假。很想放开自己的心,认真面对那赤裸裸的内心深处。现实有时候,会让我不禁的掉眼泪。常会问自己,我会做什么? 我是谁?我为什么存在在这个世界上?我都不够好,值得人家爱我吗? 曾经我想不通的时候,我会驾着车到处绕,去暂时的倒空心里那一股的疑惑。至少那一个时刻,会舒服一点。盈盈,你只有四年的时间就到三十岁了。怎么办? 你为什么还这么的疑惑?

Sunday, September 6, 2015


Posted by Janet Tiong at 1:09 AM 0 comments
She doesn't know if she herself is the fool.
#Wishlist : To be happy and feel,surround herself with happiness.
Pray for all the good things to happen. 
We all need the strengths and positive vibes to face whatever that's coming along.Above all.

Signing off,
Little Miss J

Tuesday, September 1, 2015

1st September Diary

Posted by Janet Tiong at 11:49 PM 0 comments
Here I am after being MIA for so long.
I know that nobody is gonna read what I am going to write here anymore.But you know what, that's a good thing.Perhaps I would write more stuffs because of that.First of all, dear Diary sorry for abandoning you this long.During this period of time, I was lost,found and then lost again.The cycle goes on and on.Today I told myself I wanted to write something here before the clock strikes twelve.It's the first day of September and I hope I will end today with a good note.i told myself over and over again not to take things for granted.Not to be bullied and not to love blindly.What is it that lies in front of me, I don't know. But I hope The Lord will guide me through.My wish for September definitely will be : please be good to me.

Signing off, 
Little Miss J 

Sunday, December 7, 2014


Posted by Janet Tiong at 12:07 AM 0 comments
Found this article online.I believe everyone who is LDR now somehow resonate well with it.

Being in a Long Distance relationship is more difficult than a normal relationship. Days passed by and all you have is the phone and internet to connect you.

There are a lot of limitations when it comes to your relationship. No dinner dates, movies, or even just warm hugs. You cannot celebrate monthsaries together because you are thousand miles apart from each other.

It gets harded especially when your other half is working on the other side of the world. You are in different time zones. When you are about to sleep it is time for them to wake up and vice versa. Every moment that you speak with each other is crucial.

But it is really just distance no matter how far you are from each other, you just have to remind yourself that you can do it because you love each other.

Faith, trust and patience will be tested during this times but what is important is you know deep inside that your love is stronger than any other negative thoughts. You will definitely miss each other, that is normal but you have to keep in your mind that your other half is doing it for the sake of your future. So that when the time comes, you will be happy in the arms of each other.

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