Sunday, December 7, 2014

LDR

Posted by Janet Tiong at 12:07 AM 0 comments
Found this article online.I believe everyone who is LDR now somehow resonate well with it.

Being in a Long Distance relationship is more difficult than a normal relationship. Days passed by and all you have is the phone and internet to connect you.

There are a lot of limitations when it comes to your relationship. No dinner dates, movies, or even just warm hugs. You cannot celebrate monthsaries together because you are thousand miles apart from each other.

It gets harded especially when your other half is working on the other side of the world. You are in different time zones. When you are about to sleep it is time for them to wake up and vice versa. Every moment that you speak with each other is crucial.

But it is really just distance no matter how far you are from each other, you just have to remind yourself that you can do it because you love each other.

Faith, trust and patience will be tested during this times but what is important is you know deep inside that your love is stronger than any other negative thoughts. You will definitely miss each other, that is normal but you have to keep in your mind that your other half is doing it for the sake of your future. So that when the time comes, you will be happy in the arms of each other.

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

彼此

Posted by Janet Tiong at 7:26 PM 0 comments
原来,爱与被爱是一线之差。
曾经被伤害过的心,是不可能会复原的了。但女孩,请你照顾好自己。不会也要学会,因为那是你的一辈子。
现在有一个爱我的人,让我当初义无反顾的把自己的心交出来。
祝我们彼此都快乐。
彼此都永远爱着对方。
因为没有人的心可以一次又一次的被伤。

这一封是写给软弱的自己。

Monday, October 20, 2014

雨季

Posted by Janet Tiong at 11:47 PM 0 comments
把这个部落格荒废了这么久,我还真的是很不好意思。这次真的是生锈了。
我的思念都献给了现在在台湾旅行的他。期待你快点回来。

渐渐我们就要步入年尾了。我好希望十二月快点到,因为我有长假要拿!其实也只是一个星期罢了。算是给自己的一个小小奖赏吧。

听不到他熟悉声音的日子里,我好不习惯。
也因为有这样的机会,我就趁机思考或者是做很多的自我反省。显然有好多好多的进步空间。还是要继续加油,盈盈!

今晚是一个下雨的夜晚,所以应该会特别的好睡。祝晚安!


Photo of the day: 
最近刚刚去了的餐厅。
这么可爱的一个角落,逃不过我的相机!


Sunday, July 6, 2014

不要戴假面具好吗?

Posted by Janet Tiong at 5:37 PM 0 comments
这是另一面的我。也是真实的我。
今天在这里正面和你交心。

小的时候我很叛逆,不喜欢待在家里。
那时候心里想的是,我要去看世界。

长大了,翅膀稍微有一点点硬了,父母亲帮我买了一张机票,就这样飞来了这个城市里。那时候懵懵懂懂的,虽然孤身一人在这里上班,身边其实有很多人在帮忙,因为我的生活圈子还蛮大。
这些帮助过我的人,我从没忘记过你们。只是我还找不到机会和你们一个个的说声谢谢。

时间久了,我这只鸟儿也似乎飞到累了。世界大概也没看到多少,得到的是一堆的心酸史。在这城市里做工,最穷的就是自己的荷包。经历了车祸,分手,被上司欺负,很多时候都想忍下来,可惜我没用,不小心给一些人看到这一面软弱的我。那些开心的时候,都是短暂的。

即将进入四周年的工作旅程,我也一无所成。我仍然是一个卑微的员工,咬着牙赚取生活费来养自己。看着身边的朋友,嫁人生子,虽然他们也有他们家里那本难念的经,但经济心灵上是稳定的。

或许要怪就怪我是一个很爱烦恼的女孩。我始终会担心未来的路。更何况,我是家里的长女,上有爸爸妈妈下有两个弟弟。以后要怎么一个人买房子给自己,和照顾爸爸妈妈。

昨天妈妈在电话里的一句:你年龄也不小了,让我更加的担心,这说明时间更加不等人了。我背后这隐形的重担,几时可以卸下?

那天在工作上遇到一位姐妹,突然发现我们的背景好像。虽然她比我年长,但我们同样离乡背景来到这个城市里工作。说到生活/工作上的担子的时候,她的眼眶湿了。我牵着她的手告诉她我都明白,我都知道。那时候的我也好想哭。对于生活中许多事,我都感到无力,没有安全感。

有时候真的好想关闭这个部落格,看回去很多的posts都是不开心的倾诉。我还是爱面子的,还是不想给人认定我是不开心的女孩。但对着这个部落格说话,是我仅有可以发泄的地方。

若你读到这篇博文,请你不要胡乱的为我贴上标签。只期许,你会为我祈祷,祝福我。而我可以感恩的是,今天还有生命气息张开眼去过每一天的生活。

好累。
开朗的笑脸背后,藏着一颗哭泣的心。


#我不想长大记

Sunday, June 29, 2014

Blank Talk

Posted by Janet Tiong at 4:28 PM 0 comments
Honestly speaking I am getting lazier to blog nowadays.

Started this blog since uni and until now, I noticed a lot of my friends closed their blogs ever since they graduated or moved on to the next step in their life.

Today I am here sitting and write nothing. I am really running out of ideas to write.Life has became more or less a routine for me, especially after three years of working. 

No more shopping spree at the mall during weekend.
No more friends hangouts at specialty cafes. Even if there is, that would be one or twice per month.
All I do is lay in the bed and sleep whole day round.

It's the end of June and we are going to welcome the next half of the year in another day.

Am I going down the right path? I don't know yet and time will tell someday.

Am thinking of closing down this blog as readers are getting lesser.The inconsistency usage of language, inconsistency of blog updates kept me thinking it's about time.

But I haven't made up my mind yet. I will share about my blog closure, if I am really doing it.

Till then.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

I am - Project Planner

Posted by Janet Tiong at 10:49 PM 0 comments
We need to plan for certain things in life. Be it our career, relationship, financial status and etc.

In fact, there are so many things which we need to look into. 

I am currently slowly embarking into new direction in life.

Things aren't smooth sailing at times. I can't control it but I believe God is in control.

He has provided me with a physical shoulder on the earth. The shoulder has became my main source of warmth and support ever since then.

In fact, I am blessed.Though the road is kinda tough, he never fails to cheer me up, never fails to give me encouragement.His calm and soothing voice puts me to sleep every night.

I should be a stronger project planner.At least, I never give up learning to be one.

But the one on top of me, He - The Universe Project Manager has destined my paths on the earth.

Abba Father, thanks for everything. Although a lot of times, I cracked my head and had millions thoughts running in my mind trying to figure out why certain things happened.Please continue to guide me so that I don't become a lost sheep. Keep me patient so that I can wait for the good things to come.

I am vulnerable to alot of things on this Earth.Sometimes I feel weak too.You who watches me from above, may You continue to bless me with wisdoms to differentiate the good and evil things around me.

Till then.

Saturday, May 10, 2014

思念的练习

Posted by Janet Tiong at 12:34 AM 1 comments
现在最最最想念的人就是他。
好想你,这一句话我每天都要告诉他。
记得那一天,我走进候机室的时候,眼眶湿湿的,我舍不得上飞机。
我带着的承重的心情回到这个城市里。
我的心留在他那里了。
有时候真的忍不住,好想再飞到那个城市里去找他。
从没想过这个城市会对我有特别的意义。可是自从有了他之后,这个城市对我的意义特别不一样。因为那是他长大的地方。
现在我们两个都特别的忙,联络彼此的时间少了。
想他的时候,我会把我们的照片拿出来看看…把甜蜜回忆一幕一幕的翻出来
我好想快点快点看到你……
期待我们下一次的相遇在彼此的城市里。

好吧,这次就写到这…把我overflowing的思念统统都写出来……

Monday, April 28, 2014

幸福记

Posted by Janet Tiong at 1:38 AM 0 comments
曾经以为他可能不存在。
曾经以为的事,不发生了。
他很努力的把我从梦中叫醒,
一次又一次的告诉我-你不是在做梦。
就算这是做梦,我可以永远都不要醒吗?

世界上还有什么比这种踏实的幸福来的更珍贵?大概没有了…我不想把幸福物质化。这是再多的金钱都买不回来的幸福。

我们每一天都在电话里倒数。
倒数见面的日子。
倒数见面的时候要做的事。
好希望我们可以渡过这些倒数的日子,然后就再也不用倒数了。
因为可以每一天一起过生活。

我对未来的憧憬又回来了。
以为从此以后封锁的憧憬真的再一次回来了。
好难以置信。
被他抱在怀里的我,也是最爱你的我。
简单也是一种幸福。
谢谢你。爱你。









Thursday, April 17, 2014

不乖的我

Posted by Janet Tiong at 2:31 AM 0 comments
现在的我病了。身体状况当然不比昨天惨。因为他一直叮咛我要吃药,而倔强的我这一次也乖乖听话…现在比昨天好多了。昨晚我记得我一直在电话里嚷着生病好辛苦。可能发烧,所以才这么无理取闹…

这两天听着电话那头里的声音,我知道他在为我担心。
对不起,让你着急了。
是我我没有好好照顾自己。
年下来不知道为什么我好容易生病。
这已经是第二次了。

第一次生病的时候,也换来他第一次打越洋电话给我。听到他声音的那一刻,心里莫名的好感动,虽然有点生疏,因为生病发烧最辛苦。生病也会让我好想家,可是又尽量不要给爸爸妈妈知道,因为不想要给他们担心。谢谢你填补的这个空间。相信在电话里安慰病人不容易吧?

我的生病记就是这样在电话中渡过。他虽不在身边,可我却觉得他的心在这儿。

我希望我们都能健健康康的一起长大,一起变老。要一起去体验这个很长很长的人生……

我开始爱睡了,大概是感冒药开始作祟了。

倒数见到你的日子----->一天。
很期待那暖暖的拥抱…

晚安咯…

Sunday, April 13, 2014

心绪 9

Posted by Janet Tiong at 12:57 AM 0 comments
刚刚和电话那头里的他说晚安。
可是临时想说在这里写写东西。
时间过的忽快忽慢,有时候还真的很考验人的耐性。
我好希望星期五快点来。

今天是星期日,等一下有主日崇拜。
每一次崇拜完过后,都会有一小段默祷的时间。
我的祷告里离不开感恩。
上帝让我明白今天我拥有的是从他而来。
在这个看似很奢侈的环境里做工,幸好我还没变成珠光宝气的成员。上帝让我看到许多人戴着面具过生活。
我很明白自己要成为什么样的一个人。
当有人告诉你,你的心不可以这么善良的时候,你会怎么做?
我不想要失去这一颗上帝创造给我的心。
就是一颗爱人爱己的心。


Sunday, April 6, 2014

写给来自星星的你

Posted by Janet Tiong at 10:01 PM 2 comments

这一篇是写给这张照片的摄影师
我一个人摇摇晃晃的渡过了接近27个月的日子
你出现了
你的出现在我的生命里好特别
我觉悟到
原来有人陪你吃每一餐饭是可以那么幸福的
你对我大大小小的事情都记得清清楚楚
还有通宵的电话粥
你总是用心的聆听
我都感受到你的用心
你说过你的责任就是要让我每一天都过得开心
要让我开心的笑
就这么样的一个简单承诺
我心动了
24岁的我遇上了28岁的你
这个组合我从没想过
在爱情路上
总会有风风雨雨
我希望我们会一起抓住这一把大雨伞
一辈子的抓着,走过阴天晴天
我渴望的是大家对我们的祝福
爱情是人生里最微妙的承诺

Sunday, March 16, 2014

Love and Bravery

Posted by Janet Tiong at 4:38 PM 1 comments
If love requires you to take another great step,will you do so?

Love is a responsible act with bravery.

Love is taking a great leap of faith.

Bravery comes from love,love comes from bravery.

Love is with us.



Saturday, March 1, 2014

We have come to March

Posted by Janet Tiong at 1:11 AM 2 comments
Sorry that I have been neglecting this blog for quite sometime already.....Mind you this could be a really random post..

So fast that we are entering March.Here I am trying to feed some content to my blog.Since January until today, I have been through a little getaway, watched the first concert in life,getting sick, attending rounds and rounds of interviews,attending closest Uni mates wedding,cousins wedding,meeting new people,Chinese New Year celebration,13 days holiday break,gained weight,getting little kids greeting me as yi yi* or better still some call me jie jie*,getting parents friends asking when are you getting married,but I still received lotsa angpaus,watched The Journey - a touching movie which make me gone teary in the cinema,nonstop overseas whatsapp messaging and photo sharing.

Despite entering March,I wish May could have come earlier.I wish right now it's 30th April midnight or early morning of 1st May as I have a flight to catch and look forward to meet the host.

Have you ever experienced something/someone that manage to put a smile on your face for 24/7?
Have you ever experienced that your heart is being lifted away and you are willingly to let it fly to the place that attracts it.
Have you ever felt that everything which had happened felt like a dream and you need somebody to actually pinch you and tell you that :  Hey,you don't need to wake up, what you see and what you feel now is all REAL!! 

Love is the foundation of everything. 
I believe the Love from God is sufficient and strong enough to lead me to the next step in my life.
However,uncertainties that I had encountered and might encounter in life,always always weaken me....for I am just a girl..a human..渺小到不行......
That night I cried in the phone over a situation which I can't control at all.Something that I never thought it would happen and something that I have to call a stop.
Been through all these,tho Abba Father is watching over me from the above, I need a steady shoulder,a warm arm,to guide me to through the life journey on this earth.

As I grow older,my memory box storage is getting fuller and fuller.
I have learnt to appreciate even the smallest thing that came into my life.
Some say you have to learn to dance in the rain.
And I say You have to learn to dance in both sunny days and rainy days.

Till then.I hope I can do a picture post the next round.

P/s: I was writing this blog post while listening to this song.Hope you like it too~


xoxo 

Little Miss J 

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

心绪8

Posted by Janet Tiong at 9:50 PM 0 comments
今晚的我不想多写了,以下的图解与旁文都把我的心情表达出来。

Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Posted by Janet Tiong at 10:43 PM 0 comments
今天我回家了。
暂时的休息是为了走更长远的路。
有好多好多的东西想写。
等等我,很快就会回来的。

xoxo
Little Miss J

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

生命里的新亮点

Posted by Janet Tiong at 12:29 PM 0 comments


看看这个女孩,你就会知道你有多幸福了!
加油,因为人生的路还很长。
她都可以这么坚强的去建立她的生活,我们身为正常人,更应该要做到吧。
外表真的不是一切,在这件事情上,她给了我很大的启示。
从小到大,我都认为自己是丑小鸭,可是和她相比起来,我算什么呢?



现在的心情:
有那么一小点的紧张,因为等下有越洋phone interview。祝我好运哦。
谢谢你,在电话的另一头很用心的帮我模拟回答模式。看着那一封长长的信息,简直快要被你的用心弄到差点泪奔了。你是上帝派来的小天使对不?
感谢上帝,让我碰上这样的机会。我会用心去经历等下的interview。
不管结果如何,就当做是一个学习机会。


最后,要分享王力宏的最新作品。思考一下,你要的人生是如何的?或许在下一个转角,还有更精彩的等着你哦!


Sunday, January 12, 2014

爱的味道

Posted by Janet Tiong at 11:17 PM 0 comments


放心,我还不在恋爱中,只是吴建豪的这首歌在我的playlist上一直没原因的重复播。
说真的他唱出了为爱而勇敢的感觉,要定这个女孩了。还有这样的男生存在吗?



陶喆的一首太美丽让时间好像停顿了。女孩的美被他唱的淋漓尽致。中学就开始就听他的歌,到现在还是很爱听,真的不腻。可能不管是哪个女生听到这首歌,都会顿时绝的自己好美丽吧?哈哈。若你有留意,他就要来马来西亚了哦!



梁静茹的歌,我是在失恋过后才体会到那歌词里所唱的意思。
我还记得那时候一帮朋友带我去民歌餐厅,特地点了她的“可惜不是你” 给我听。
回想那时候,我心里是觉得又气又好笑。而过后我也渐渐明白她的“勇气” 这首歌的含义。原来失恋可以领悟这么多东西。一年后的我长大了。


常常在想,爱情这东西叫人又爱又恨。
那一天晚上,我陪着一位女生朋友在电话里听她的心声。
听着听着,眼泪就很不乖的流下来了。陪着她,我的心在揪着。
因为我似乎看到了以前的自己 - 因为舍不得,而流泪。
而从她的故事中,我发现了:.........
爱情里没有勉强的幸福。
若那个男生给不到你一个身份,给不到你一份完整的幸福。
你还会坚持要陪他走下去吗? 你可以和另一个女生分享他的爱吗?
他可以满足你物质上的需要,可是在重要日子的时候,他却不在你身边。
他给你的爱是带有条件的。
我知道放开会很痛,可是女孩你要知道下一个人一定会更好。
他会在下一站,等你下车的时候给你一个紧紧的拥抱,然后告诉你,一切都过去了。
你没事,因为你还有我。
那一刻,没有人知道什么时候会发生。
所以女孩,你要学会坚强,要学会珍惜自己。

爱情这一门功课或许是你怎么考都很难及格的科目。
若再让我碰到爱情,我会问它说这一次你要我学习的是什么?
在爱情里成长,有苦有甜。而我经历了一次,我不那么怕苦了。。
反而觉得,我要更懂得去爱一个人。
幸福就是这么一点一滴累积起来的。

愿天下有情人终成眷属。


xoxo

Little Miss J

Friday, January 10, 2014

下雨的吉隆坡

Posted by Janet Tiong at 10:46 PM 0 comments

我回来写第二篇了!
算是有小小的努力吧?

一月份的吉隆坡天空都是阴阴的。
天空好爱哭。。怎么会有那么多的眼泪?

近来的生活过得还不错,我感觉到上帝都有在看顾保守我。不管是在大事还是小事上,而我能做的就是每天仰望祷告。因为这是白白得到的恩典。

上个星期六,我也参加了一场婚礼。
从大学还没毕业,就开始参加学长学姐的婚礼。所以算到来十个手指头算不完。。每一场婚礼都有它浪漫的地方。星期六的这一场还是让我感动流泪了。看着上帝把两个不一样的人放在一起,让他们从此一起跑一辈子的路,这是一生的誓约。

以下就是在婚礼上,我拍下来的照片:


               


婚礼的布置用了好多心思去做,好漂亮!主题是伊甸园的婚礼哦。




          

当天的姐妹们,个个都好美。我也好久没见到她们了其实。。。

         


                


       

在酒席上,例常要做的事-自拍。大家都玩到好开心

补回上次我的好朋友婚礼上,我们当姐妹的照片。从小学到现在,不敢相信自己身边这么要好的姐妹升格成为人妻了。


星期一,有少少Monday blue 的我。新的一年工作更要加油了哦。*好胖*

我期待六天后的故事。到时候再回来吧…

下次见…tata....

Wednesday, January 1, 2014

2013 vs 2014

Posted by Janet Tiong at 10:54 PM 0 comments

I ended 2013 in Minnie style!



I welcome 2014 with a plain full volume heart.


Who doesn't want a fresh start?

I have new year resolutions this time.

Happy New Year 2014 if you are my readers.

May you have a joyful and prosperous year.

xoxo
The Little Miss J
 

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